BztHoUgHtS & kISSeS
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Sunday, June 04, 2006
Da Nu Ren, Xiao Nu Ren
This is not the first time that a taxi uncle told ALBT about men must control women and about how many girlfriends they have after getting married after I left the cab. Apparently they are appalled by my behaviour. Well, I admit I can get a bit over the top at times (meaning my temper), but I aren't beating up ALBT or hurling vulgarities at him at the public. Neither am I violent with him, like pinching him or smashing his head to da wall. I'm just grouchy at times (well, most of da times). And I know he dotes on me of course.
I can't accept suggestions like woman have to give in to her man in front of others just because.. ta dah, he's a man... That's bullshit. BULLSHIT to the core. I would give him my respect if he deserve it. Situations like asking me to go home alone at 3am because he needs to go back together with his best friend would definately get a tongue lashing from me. LOW CRIME DOESN'T MEAN NO CRIME, dude.
So men are suppose to sing, drink and be merry while we women are to stay at home sewing clothes, fussing about the children while wasting there youth and beauty at the kitchen. NO WAY. We aren't no slave. Slavery was aborted in Asia eons ago. This is a post-feminist society here. I have heard enough of abusive relationships whereby the husband is a gambler, womanizer or drunkard. But why do these women stayed on? Just because he is THE MAN of the family? Bullshit. A real gentleman never treats his lady like this. Nor any other woman in such horrible behaviour.
Well, I think I diverted from the topic. Everyone is different. Every girl is different too. So don't use your old traditional thinking about what a woman should be and apply it on every girl you see. If every girl thinks and act the same, wouldn't it be a Barbie world outside? Same face, same figure, same beau (Ken).
I'm a Barbie girl, in a Barbie world. Life in plastic, is fantastic.
And I don't condone cheating husbands' behaviour.
I've the compulsion to bite anyone who tries to mislead ALBT. Literally. GRRrr...